Are you ready

for relationships that rock?

Relationship issues don't magically go away. That's why our unique framework for creating relationships that rock in all areas of life is a must. Based on the latest advances in brain development, find out how to contain disruptive emotions, impulses and automatic behaviors in yourself and others that create dysfunction. Don't leave your relationships to chance.

Own your gifts. Embrace your power. Unleash your potential. 
DISCOVER THE RELATIONSHIPS YOU ARE MEANT TO HAVE.

Maximizing Your Relationships

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Our Maximizing Your Relationships toolkit is the first step towards understanding how you are hard wired to behave in relationships and how to create the conditions in your relationships in which you are most likely to thrive. 

A powerful personal growth toolkit that blends:   

  • the SSPS assessment to show you how your brain is hard-wired and the innate needs that drive your behavior in relationships
  • a detailed report on your relationships style based on your Striving Style assessment results that details your need satisfiers and dissatisfiers in relationships as well as how you will strive to get you needs met through communication, conflict, romance and intimacy
  • PLUS a comprehensive interpretation video on how to self-actualize based on your predominant brain quadrant or Striving Style.  

Only $97 for a limited time - a savings of 48%!

**or, if you prefer, 2 weekly payments of $49**

Get off autopilot and back in the driver's seat of your own life.
Discover your path to becoming who you are meant to be.

What's included in the Maximizing Your Relationship toolkit...

Powerful insight into your brain's organization

The Striving Styles is the only assessment to show you what quadrant of the brain dominates, how your emotions influence your behavior, the innate psychological need that must be met and how you behave when you are being self-protective vs. self-actualizing. 

Included with the assessment is a digital 26-page report on your Predominant Striving Style and details on your Squad.

Clear user manual to leverage your brain's relationship style 

Based on our brain's organization, each of us has a relationship style - a set of behaviors that we use to get our psychological needs met in relationships to feel satisfied.

Most of us are not aware of our relationships' needs nor how they drive our behavior which leaves us feeling powerless to change our relationships by negotiating  to get our needs met. This report gives you the roadmap you need.

First step on the road to becoming who you are meant to be 

Once you know your brain organization, the next step is to fully understand your Predominant Style, including how it seeks to get its need met and what it takes to develop.

The interpretation session will deepen the knowledge of your Predominant Style and get you moving forward on your journey to become who you are meant to be by creating satisfying relationships. 

Take the trial and error out of creating satisfying relationships and living a life in which you thrive.

We WILL help you understand what drives your behavior, how to use the abilities you were born with to achieve what you were born for, and provide a roadmap, based on your brain, to break the patterns of behavior that get in the way of having the satisfying relationships that you crave. 

Anne & Heather

Embrace Your Relationships Potential
with the Striving Styles
it becomes simple!
Imagine being able to consistently and confidently embrace your power and full potential in your relationships, whether at home or at work, so that you feel truly satisfied. 
Imagine being able to consistently and confidently embrace your power and full potential in your relationships, whether at home or at work, so that you feel truly satisfied. 
For too many of us, we live life on autopilot, feeling frustrated and dissatisfied with our lives, our careers and our relationships. We end up surviving, rather than thriving. And, worst of all, we feel powerless to do anything about it.

From the beginning, we have been committed to helping individuals, leaders and organizations achieve their potential. We developed the Striving Styles Personality System to provide the one thing we believed was missing - a clear, step by step roadmap for our development based on brain science and what it takes for us to truly feel satisfied in our lives. 

Discover how you can live a more fulfilling life, achieve the potential that you have been muting or ignoring, and embrace your inner power to become who you are meant to be. Your brain holds the key and we can give you the 'user manual' so that you are in the 'driver's seat' of your own life. 
Having the thriving, satisfying relationships you crave IS POSSIBLE. 
Let us show you how.

Anne Drantisaris & Heather Dranitsaris-Hilliard

Authors of 80+ books on personal growth, relationships, career and leadership including 
Who Are You Meant to Be?, So, You Think You Can Lead? and Power Past the Imposter Syndrome 

Experts in personality, behavioral change, therapeutic coaching, personal growth, leadership 
development and organizational transformation. 

This is NOT just another assessment. 

In fact, if you have done the MBTI® or other personality assessments, you are finally going to get the direction you need to go beyond knowing your 4-letter code or color!!

  • Stop being at the mercy of your unconscious impulses, emotions and habits of mind. 
  • ​Understand the innate needs that drive your behavior and how to leverage your brain's full capacity to create the conditions for satisfying relationships.  
  • ​Put yourself back in the driver's seat of your relationships and your own life.

With Maximizing Your Relationships Toolkit, we show you how.
Register by clicking below. Let's do this!

Jeff H.
"You have opened my eyes..."
You have opened my eyes to a new world of possibility for me. I knew that I was struggling, but it is so much clearer to me that I was actually avoiding the things that I should be doing based on my innate talents. I was skeptical that it would make a difference, but I am proof that this approach really works.
Sara-Jane B.
"Wow - is all I have to say!"
The feedback that I am getting, all I can say is wow! I did not think that I deserved such accolades, but I am now inspiring another group of people to embrace your programs. Well done ladies for your fantastic system. Thanks for all your help.
Danielle F.
"Transformational!"
Working with Anne & Heather has been truly transformation. I cannot believe how much the Striving Styles has changed my approach in all areas of my life. New tools, new skills and best of all new confidence in pursuing my potential. It has had a profound impact on my relationship with my spouse, coworkers and family!
Leighton G.
"Best investment"
My girlfriend and I were constantly fighting and I could see my behavior was contributing but I felt powerless to do anything about it. The toolkit helped me to really understand myself, why I behaved the way I did and how to talk to her about my needs in the relationship. Hands down the best investment!.  
Darryl T.
"Uncomplicating the complex..."
Figuring out how to deal with the mix of people in my life has always been a big struggle. Complex is an understatement when I think of dealing with their emotions, behaviors, attitudes, and more. The Striving Styles has uncomplicated the complex by giving me an understanding of what makes people behave the way they do so that I can lead them effectively, every time. Managing these relationships is so much simpler for me now. 
Mike M.
"Highly recommend it!"
Like most leaders, I thought I had it all figured out. But looking at my behavior, based on my own brain and even just thinking about the role my brain plays, it was a game changer. It has made it so much easier to even just talk about behavior and what is fueling it. I highly recommend this for anyone looking to increase their impact as a leader and improve their relationships.
Frequently Asked Questions
I've done assessments before. How is this one different?
When we set out to create the Striving Styles, it was because we had worked with so many different assessments and tools, including the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator®, that were not helping us or our clients to understand the 'why' behind behavior, and more importantly, the exact steps to break limiting patterns that stop us from achieving our potential in our relationships, our careers and our life. The Striving Styles goes beyond the assessment to provide you with a roadmap for development that you can navigate on your own, or with support, that takes the guess work out of trying to figure out "now what?" after completing an assessment.

How will the Maximizing Your Relationships toolkit help me?
For many of us, we may recognize when we are feeling dissatisfying, frustrated, depressed or anxious, however, it is not always apparent to us why or what exact steps we can take to change our experience. The Maximizing Your Relationship toolkit provides you with the insights, based on your own brain organization, to understand why you behave the way you do, how to get your needs met so that you feel psychologically secure, and gives you a step-by-step framework to shift from surviving to thriving. It equips you with the tools you need to not only understand the mechanics of your mind, but the exact roadmap to create the conditions in your relationships in which you are most likely to thrive.

What is different in your approach to developing relationship potential?
One of the truly unique aspects of our approach is that it based on science and focuses on what we need as humans to actually develop towards our potential given our brain organization and the mechanics of the mind. It considers our conditioning and how that contributes to our self-protective patterns of behavior. We look at the whole person and believe that everything we struggle with as human's IS IN OUR HEADS, and therefore within our power to develop. Making it easy for you to understand your brain, how to leverage it fully, what you need to truly feel satisfied in your relationships and how you can achieve your potential, so you have the wisdom and the power to become who you are meant to be is behind everything we do. 

What if I want more one-on-one support or help from Anne or Heather?
You can book coaching sessions for yourself, with your partner or child, as well as group sessions if you want to leverage the toolkit further. We also offer a number of other online programs and access to our Private Facebook Group which provides ongoing support for our members. Contact us for more details. 
Learning how to tap into your own potential means being your own driving force in your relationships and life. The Maximizing Your Relationships toolkit shows you how to tap into your innate relationships gifts, negotiate to get your innate needs met and, ultimately, to have the satisfying relationships you crave. 
You work far too hard, you have tried far too much and you have come too far to stop short of investing in yourself to achieve all your goals, your dreams and ultimately, all your potential.

You don't have to be any more ready than you are today. 
Create the relationships you are meant to have...we can show you how.

SUCCESS STORY #197
"Hands down this is way better than any other approach out there. Their no b.s., neuroscience-based approach just makes everything make sense and become doable. It was tough at times to look so closely at myself, but the shift in my perspective and behavior were profound. A must-do program for anyone who truly wants to thrive and live their best life!"
- Janet, Toronto
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